But of the tree of the knowledge of good and
evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt
surely die. (Genesis
2:17)
We have
become a generation that believes that it can get away with anything, even
disobedience. We have looked for a way out of the consequences for most things
we do. We have explained the consequences and sought for a way to remove their
sting. We have sought to demystify the command so that as many as possible can
break it.
We forget
that we are simply echoing the ancient serpent who told Eve that you shall not surely die. But
even worse is that we are not even willing to look at the statement beyond
that. That is how the devil succeeds in baiting us all the time by giving
statements that are open ended. And I think this is the reason God did not ask
the serpent to explain anything. His statement did not actually negate God’s;
it twisted it just a little. What he cast doubt on was not death but the surety
of it.
Adam may have
been scared of instant death and so the devil brought in another dimension.
Disobedience will bring death so slowly that we may safely assume it is not
there. The pleasures of the sin can’t compare to the Day of Judgment especially
since it may take forever before that day comes. And that forever can be so
subjective to the one looking at it. Another thing Eve was deceived about was
that physical death was the only result, which, like the devil and his
advocates continually argue, cannot come from a loving God.
The
appetizers to sin are also very attractive, especially to the senses. Bending
the perception of the consequences will then make disobedience so desirable.
Deferring them will really confuse the tempted. The option of there being some way
of dulling the sting of the consequence will make the temptation irresistible.
And I think that was how even Adam was deceived to disobey God’s clear command.
You see Eve
had eaten and had not died. In fact she may have brightened from the
realization that God may have been issuing empty threats about that dying. She
may have argued that way with Adam to convince him to also eat. She may have
convinced him that he may have misheard or misunderstood God. And there was the
serpent to add fuel to the fire of temptation.
Did they die
immediately? Of course they died. Their innocence died. Their relationship with
God died. Their relationship with each other died. In fact physical death was
the least of the deaths to fear. But since Satan had succeeded in shifting the
goal of the consequence a whole new scenario was created.
The favorite
sin I like to deal with is the one most advertised, sexual sin. It is the one
sin where this connects to closely. It is the one whose consequences are most
disastrous among all the commandments relating to our dealings with others. It
is the sin whose consequences continue long after the sin has been repented and
forgiven. It is the sin that transgresses generations in its consequence. And
it is the sin that many times leads to certain death through innumerable
infections, some worse than HIV.
We talk about terrorism because Abraham slept
with Hagar instead of waiting for the son God had promised him. David’s
posterity was condemned to violence and treachery because of adultery. Israel
was divided because Solomon strayed in that direction. One clear sin we see in
Sodom was homosexuality. The Benjamites were almost wiped out because of sexual
sin. And closer home many ministries and ministers have collapsed due to sexual
sin.
Yet what do
we see? We are trying all we can to dull the consequences of that one sin. Like
Eve we think delaying the consequences will somehow negate them. We think
explaining away or dealing with physical death will remove the sting of the
consequence. And like Adam we will realize that we are biting more than we can
chew. We realize that the consequences we fear are the least we will be dealing
with. Death comes with even greater measure after we put off the physical
aspect of the consequence. And the physical consequence will come eventually,
anyway.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth
is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own
body. (1Corinthians 6:18)
Like a
friend who with her husband pioneered True Love Waits in Africa says, there is
no condom for the heart. No sex is safe if it is outside the boundaries God
set. All the enticement we are getting to even consider sex outside God’s
bounds is unimaginable if we decided to think straight.
You see
thinking about practicing sin safely is not just a contradiction. It is folly
of the highest order. In fact it is insanity and extreme delusion. How can I
think of diluting poison so that I don’t die quickly? Or like the Bible asks
how can I walk on fire and not expect to be scorched?
Some time
ago we had a set of adverts that were advising married people against
unfaithfulness because it had been found out that most HIV infections are
occurring in marriage relationships. But it did not work. What with all the
movies people are watching? What with the advertisements that lean toward sex?
What about the flimsy, almost naked dress of the girls even in church? What
with the busyness of both working parents that ensures that they are never
together?
So they came
up with another that caused an uproar until it was removed, until later. ‘Carry
a condom in your unfaithfulness’ is what this one says. It has since been
brought back.
Are we
animals to walk by instinct? Can’t we really control our bodies? Is the sex
drive so powerful that it can replace our thinking capacity? Or does it remove
our brains altogether when our bodies become hot?
Deferring
the consequences or appearing to do so makes a bad situation even worse.
Thinking about physical consequences and trying to avoid them is trivializing a
very dangerous situation.
The danger
of nuclear power does not come from its usage. It is very clean and effective.
The worry about the same is simply concerned with the waste. Where do we dump
nuclear waste? Waste is never meant to be stored but dumped. And that is the
headache of people involved in that progress. Of course there is the danger
that comes from leakages and accidents like the recent one in Japan.
That in many
ways is how sin behaves like. We might bottle it up to make it appear less
harmful yet like nuclear power we can be able to do only that which is in our
power. There are many other dynamics we will not be in control of when we get
sin in progress.
We may think
that we have done away with the consequences by practicing ‘safe sex’ but we
will discover that the effects of that safety are worse than the disease we may
have got. Among the issues we will have to deal with is guilt. I will find out
that I stop trusting myself.
There is
nothing as dangerous as trust betrayed, whether one knows they have been
betrayed or not. I read this story that brings this in perspective. Two boys
were playing. One had many sweets (candies) and the other had billiard balls.
The one with the balls asked the other that they exchange whatever each had and
the other agreed, giving him all the sweets he had. His friend however kept his
best ball and gave him the rest.
At night the
one who gave everything slept soundly while the one who cheated could not
sleep. Why? He kept wondering what the other boy had kept from him. He simply
could not imagine somebody being as honest as per the contract.
This is what
safe sinning produces. Guilt. And no wonder Sharon said there is no condom for
the heart! Sin is never safe.
Yet that is
the celebrated position the devil takes. For any sin in existence the driver is
the delaying or reversal of the consequences that makes temptation so tempting.
Looking beyond the physical to other consequences will make the temptation look
so foolish to fall under. And that is the reason many people will be wondering
what befell them or how could they have been so foolish.
Temptation
blinds me to the future. Lust pushes the future so far off. Pleasure drives
imagination to only the present and simply blocks the future from our sight.
But
temptation has no capacity to altar the future, especially as it concerns the
consequences for those acts of sin. It is therefore pure shortsightedness and
feigned blindness to imagine otherwise. It is pure folly to imagine that the
fleeting pleasure one experiences at the point they are sinning is worth
comparing with the lifetime of regret and pain they must endure for that single
moment of pleasure. That is what the devil aims at diverting our attention
from.
Think before
you leap is an apt statement. Incidentally it is many times used against the
wrong targets. Many will want to look before they obey than they will before
they sin. In other words God is less dependable than our whims so that I must
really examine what He is offering before taking it yet jump to bed with a
stranger especially if I have ‘protection’.
Nothing can
be as dependable as God. In fact dependability can only be defined with respect
to God, even by atheists.
Why do we
then depend on our flimsy and shifty feelings and lusts? Surely we will not
jump at that plate of food we find on the wayside when we are hungry after a
long journey. We will first want to understand the who, why, what, how of the
food before eating. Hunger will not take the reason from us as food does not
cook itself.
For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is
light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life: To keep thee from the
evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman. Lust not after
her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids. For by
means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the
adulteress will hunt for the precious life. Can a man take fire in his bosom,
and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be
burned? So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her
shall not be innocent. Men do not despise a thief, if he steal to satisfy his
soul when he is hungry; But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he
shall give all the substance of his house. But whoso committeth adultery with a
woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound
and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away. For jealousy
is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. (Proverbs 6:23 – 34)
I have just
thought to give a longish passage to give us God’s take on sexual sin. We see a
whore and an adulterer. These are the two types of sexual sin we are being
warned against. It can be broken down into fornication and adultery. The rest
(incest and homosexuality) are offshoots of these two sins. Someone who can’t
control himself in the presence of a beautiful woman will eventually become
worse than an animal as he will become uncontrollable. His body cravings will
be such that they MUST be met. The thirst for sexual release will so overpower
the person that any opening for that release will be exploited.
But there is
judgment. Let us forget for an instant about the physical consequences like
STDs and even AIDS which are givens. The guilt, the conviction, the suspicions,
the depression are a few of the consequences of one who has released himself to
gratify his sexual urges against the boundaries God has set, marriage.
My prayer is
that we will transfer that craving for something better, something
enlightening, something life-giving.
As the hart panteth after the water brooks,
so panteth my soul after thee, O God. My soul thirsteth for God, for the living
God: when shall I come and appear before God? (Psalm 42: 1, 2)
Otherwise we
are on the path to destruction.
For the invisible things of him from the
creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are
made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were
thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was
darkened. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, And changed the
glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and
to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things. Wherefore God also gave
them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour
their own bodies between themselves: Who changed the truth of God into a lie,
and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed
for ever. Amen. For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even
their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And
likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their
lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and
receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And even
as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a
reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; (Romans 1:20 – 28)
I am sure we
are seeing some of these things with increasing frequency nowadays. I am
convinced that even those of their most arrogant advocates have no doubt that
their lifestyle is abominable even to themselves. They argue for those sins
because they need the numbers to at least dull the guilt that is eating into
them day and night as their lives are lower than those of animals. The
increasing crowd will dull their pain at living so badly.