And Joshua the son of Nun, the
servant of the LORD, died, being an hundred and ten years old. And they buried
him in the border of his inheritance in Timnathheres, in the mount of Ephraim,
on the north side of the hill Gaash. And also all that generation were gathered
unto their fathers: and there arose another generation after them, which knew
not the LORD, nor yet the works which he had done for Israel. And the children
of Israel did evil in the sight of the LORD, and served Baalim: (Judges 2: 8 – 11)
My heart
was drawn to this passage as I was reading the book of Judges. Then I
remembered that this was not the first time a similar statement has occurred in
the Bible, nor is it the last. Remember the beginning of Exodus?
It
starts with a generation that had no idea or recollection of Joseph or his
exploits in their land. No wonder they thought of a clever way to deal with the
threat that was Israel!
In
Judges we see the death of Joshua, then the deaths of all the elders that
outlived Joshua. These were the ones who had some experience with God in the 40
years wilderness experience and the dividing of the land to the twelve tribes,
and then a few wars to displace the Canaanites.
Then
they settled down. No wars. No challenges. No other conquests.
In a
short while, they forget the faith their fathers represented. But worse still
is that they start adapting to the faiths of those people they found in the
lands they occupied, especially because they did not completely thrust them out
as per God’s command.
Why does
this happen? What can we use to explain this that repeats all so often?
Europe
was the bastion of Christianity not so long ago. They sent missionaries almost
to the whole world. How come that churches are being turned to clubs and bars,
even empty museums because they have closed for lack of parishioners? Do you
know that Turkey was at one time the capital of Christianity? Was the Middle
East not the fount of our faith during the Bible times?
What
happened?
In my
book, ‘The Road to Sodom’, I have tackled one cause, comfort.
But
today I want us to look at another cause which is related to comfort, ease.
The
Christian faith is a religion of war, war with the world, war with sin, war
with the devil, war with our own desires. It is therefore most vibrant when we
are battling them. Our faith grows through our victories and our spirituality
and its muscle is strengthened through that exertion.
Think not that I am come to send
peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. For I am come to set a
man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and
the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man's foes shall be they
of his own household. He that loveth father or mother more than me is not
worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of
me. And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of
me. He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my
sake shall find it.
(Matthew 10: 34 – 39)
Remove
the enemies and challenges and you will have a flabby spiritual body. You will
suffer from spiritual obesity as you will be feeding without exercising.
What
happens when you get all that you prayed for? What will happen when all your
battles were won before you even approached the battle ground? What is left
when you always find ready meals without even knowing the farms they were
harvested from?
This is
what happens to the generations after all these victors. They only read about
the wars their fathers fought and the territories their fathers gained. And
this to the point that they wonder whether they are fairy tales as what they
see of their fathers are flabby, overweight characters who do not appear at all
capable of even strolling fast. The only spiritual battles they see are when
they are sweating through possessing this or the other for themselves or their
flock.
Worse
still is that these former giant slayers have also stopped fighting any battles
for themselves as all their major prayers have been answered. They stopped
struggling through ministry so long ago that they wonder why people should struggle
through ministry.
They
don’t pray for rent as they own a house. They don’t pray for transportation as
they can now change wheels at will. They can’t pray for fees as even before
their children finished college they were more than adequately provided for.
They stopped praying for their needs so long ago that they may not know how
praying through the night for one’s needs feels like.
They
have also adjusted downward spiritually even as they moved upward socially and
economically. Again I talk about things I have seen.
I know
people who like me had trashed TV for its negative influence buying the most
expensive cable subscription when they ‘arrived’. Pastors who advocated for
decent dress now allow their children to dress like harlots. Ministers who
shared the little support they received will not feed a starving person (unless
for PR purposes) when money stops being their problem. People who were known
for their concern and intercession can now only be accessed by the rich.
What
spiritual heritage will they pass on to their children, leave alone
generations?
This is
the genesis of that other generation. That is the spring from which they drink.
They
therefore found all their battles won, all they needed accessed, all their
enemies vanquished.
It is
for this reason that they must look for something else to occupy their time, to
expend their energies. And God has nothing for the idle mind. The normal for
God is unwavering pursuit. He is all my focus or He is nowhere near what He
requires of us.
Not so
with the other side. They have enough to occupy all our time and energy, all
the time. And we do not even need to seek for it. It is tantalizingly appealing
to all our senses since the fall.
That is
how comes the following generation very easily tends towards the pursuits of
lower spiritual leanings, many times of our neighbors as they are not ashamed
of sharing what they believe and practice.
That is
how come some preachers’ kids will have nothing to do with the God their
parents served, some going all the way to a complete rejection of God and His
values. That is why some godly businessmen produce godless rascals who waste
all the money their parents sought on their knees on vanities.
Is there
a solution? I know someone is asking.
Of course
there is. Deuteronomy 6 gives God’s solution.
And thou shalt love the LORD thy
God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might And
these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou
shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou
sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest
down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine
hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write
them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates. And it shall be, when the
LORD thy God shall have brought thee into the land which he sware unto thy
fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give thee great and goodly
cities, which thou buildedst not, And houses full of all good things, which
thou filledst not, and wells digged, which thou diggedst not, vineyards and
olive trees, which thou plantedst not; when thou shalt have eaten and be full;
Then beware lest thou forget the LORD, which brought thee forth out of the land
of Egypt, from the house of bondage. Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God, and
serve him, and shalt swear by his name. Ye shall not go after other gods, of
the gods of the people which are round about you; (Deuteronomy 6: 5 – 14)
Yet that
can be treated as an academic exercise if not taken seriously enough.
We must
pursue God for Him, and nothing else. We must love His word because we love
Him. We must read His word to know Him and worship Him aright.
We will
stop reading the Bible to get points to preach our sermons but simply to get to
hear what He is telling us. We will pray not to fulfill a duty but to commune
with our King. We will minister not so that we are good examples but because it
is the overflow of our hearts.
Yet I will
mention two things that will make it possible for us to secure our future
generations, as well as us, from what the Bible is pointing out.
The first
is to disciple them. By this I mean reproduce ourselves spiritually in them. And
we will do this by investing heavily in helping them know and respond to God in
their context by availing ourselves to their questions, curiosities,
uncertainties. We will love them to grow in the ways of God. We will help them
identify God and His will in their lives, yet not as prophets, but as coaches.
Why is
discipleship key for this?
Discipleship
can also be a very selfish way for us to keep our fire burning. I can never
help someone to grow if I am not growing as they will simply outgrow me. This is
the reason the greatest barriers and opposition to introducing discipleship in
churches are pastors. And this because growing disciples will start calling
those pastors to a higher spiritual and scriptural standard. They will not keep
quiet when you misquote scripture or present a prayerfulness that does not
exist.
And they
are not challenging you. They have started growing and want you to help them in
the same.
It is
very hard to rust if you are helping people to grow through discipleship. You can
never have a dusty Bible when you are discipling. It is difficult to be prayerless
when you are discipling.
The other
thing is closely related, sometimes being the product of discipleship. This is
mentoring.
I call
mentoring preparing someone to take your job so that they will do it even
better than you are doing. At the root is a desire to have someone outshine
you. That is why you prepare him better than you were prepared and expose him
better than you were exposed.
Why is
that mentality important? It is impossible to mentor someone when you are
threatened they will take your job. By the way it is not much different with
discipleship. The only difference is that discipleship is interested in helping
someone to grow to know God though it ends with the same thing. Mentoring deals
with helping someone become the best minister they can be. This is the reason
John 3: 30 must be at the fore of any mentoring relationship.
I have
seen some comical mentoring by men of God. A sixty something pastor or bishop
picks a twenty something person to mentor. That is not mentoring. It is a
grandfather walking around with his grandson.
You mentor
someone who can take your job immediately, someone who can replace you NOW.
Jonathan
mentored David. Elijah mentored Elisha. Jesus mentored His disciples. Aquila mentored
Apollos.
Our next
generation is dependent on our security, or lack of it, in God to continue in
the things of God. Our surrender to God will ensure that we will prepare them
to continue serving God after our demise.
Will you
stand to be counted?
Is my
next generation secure in God through my choices?