Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. (2Corinthians 6: 14 – 16)
Over the years, these verses have been used to
warn believers against getting married to unbelievers.
Though it also applies there, I feel we have
overlooked the graver warning inherent therein.
The worst part is that it will ultimately end
in marriage somewhere down the line.
And I will start with our godly friend,
Jehoshaphat.
Though he didn’t get married to the wicked, his
association with them, however innocent it was, ended up having his son getting
married to them.
Allow me to explain.
It is in the nature of friends or partners to
spend an inordinate amount of time together since they must be doing many
things together.
As a result, their children will interact even
more as they will be accompanying their parents to those places.
It does not take much imagination to know that
those children will connect with each other in deeper levels than their parents
could ever do. Meaning they will have no blinders in their relationships as
their parents have in their interaction.
Faith to them simply becomes a distinction, an
interesting and pleasant and attractive variety. It will bring color to the
dull existence of the single-colored fabric of the faith of their fathers.
However dogmatic you could be, it will be
impossible to warn your children against the children of your heathen friend or
partner since it will be an act of self-condemnation on your part.
The termination gene is not therefore
introduced at marriage. It is consummated there, long after it has been allowed
to thrive ‘innocently’.
That is what the Bible is warning us against in
that verse.
And you realise it was the same way with Israel
when they were getting into the Promised Land.
They were ordered to eliminate the Canaanite
and never seek their peace for that single reason.
Their presence would defile the purity of their
worship since in a relationship, even a relationship between enemies, will have
an impact on both parties.
Or do you not know that your enemy is your most
loyal follower, though he will be following with the intent of being the first
to witness your fall?
Have you realised that break away churches and
ministers become clones of the churches and ministries they acrimoniously left?
Take heed to thyself that thou be not snared by
following them, after that they be destroyed from before thee; and that thou
enquire not after their gods, saying, How did these nations serve their gods?
even so will I do likewise. (Deuteronomy 12:30)
Israel failed because they did not think it was
vital to eliminate the people they were to displace. Because they then started
becoming friends in little ways until they mated with their gods and were
punished for that.
Saul was rejected because he refused to clear
everything and everybody as god had said because what remained had the capacity
to corrupt them.
How radical is your obedience in the face of
innocent friends? How innocent are you amidst ministers that question your level
of obedience?
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