What man of you, having an hundred sheep, if he lose one of them, doth not leave the ninety and nine in the wilderness, and go after that which is lost, until he find it? (Luke 15:4)
Allow me to wade
into the ecclesiastical realm, if I may call it so.
How many sheep
can a single shepherd handle?
How many people
can a single pastor effectively serve?
What is a
person’s relationship quotient? What is a person’s relational capacity?
How many friends
can you consistently maintain?
How many
children can a parent effectively raise?
Just flip
through your phone book (and all other contacts).
How many of
those people can you accurately account for? How many can you say without doubt
that they are doing as they tell you? How many can you say that they are your
confidants or vice versa? How many run to you without a second thought when
they have the slightest issue?
Why am I asking
all those questions?
The pastoral ministry
is a relational responsibility, akin to that of a parent. No wonder the Roman
Catholics call theirs, father.
But the Bible
calls them shepherds, which is the actual meaning of the word pastor.
There is nothing
wholesale about the pastoral ministry. There is no copy and paste in the
pastoral ministry.
Just like a
parent with many children never does anything in a wholesale manner with his
children, a pastor should also never do it with his flock.
A parent treats
each child, even if he has twenty of them, individually, though they all come
from him.
As I have
written earlier, God took me to the farms to teach me ministry.
And even with
animals you will find that in a flock each animal will be different from the
rest in its own unique way. It is your close relationship that will enable you
to maximise on your care and their output.
My goats have
died when I got tired of that individual attention and resorted to the
wholesale treatment and was thus unable to see the unique distress signals each
gave. And it was because I became busy elsewhere and thought I was too tired to
focus.
Do you think it
is different with people? Is it not even more serious due to its eternal
consequences?
A pastor is
entrusted with a flock by God, the owner of that flock. He is therefore
accountable to God for the way he handles that flock, being rewarded when his
stewardship pleases God and eating sand when it doesn’t.
Bread of
deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel. (Proverbs 20:17)
I have
intentionally chosen that verse because the said pastor or his flock might be
using the wrong yardstick to measure his success.
For the time
will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts
shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall
turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. (2Timothy 4: 3, 4)
I am dealing here
with the pastor who wants to receive the, ‘well done, good and faithful
servant’, from his Master and not from his flock.
Pleasing people
is not in any way pleasing God. In fact, the voice of the people is not the
voice of God, otherwise God would not be holy.
What makes this
pastor stand out? What drives him? How does he function?
Helping this
pastor function and maximising his ministry is the purpose of this message.
Forget the
hireling. Forget the paid shepherd. Forget the motivational shepherd.
Allow us to
focus on the pastor who is unashamedly answerable to his calling authority,
Jesus Christ.
He must be so
tuned to God that any other voice is just a hum of interfering noise.
That pastor will
be sacked by a church because the goats running the show can not handle God’s
releases. And that because his love for his people is subject to his
relationship with his calling authority.
He looks at the
job description given by the church hiring him with the lens of Christ’s
calling on him and so can comfortably opt for joblessness if that job
description is not flexible enough for Christ to break through.
The thing that
makes him stand out, however, is that he will never agree to be the prime
pastor, or the only pastor. He will fight the urge to be the reference, the
ultimate, the pinnacle of pastoral excellence, though he will be excellent
through his submission and obedience to Christ.
He will seek to
raise other pastors since I believe that is the prime responsibility of
pastoral leadership.
And he gave
some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors
and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the
ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: (Ephesians 4: 11, 12)
We love those
verses though very few have ever sought to follow up with the purpose of that
five-fold ministry, which is preparing and raising another generation of
ministers.
If truth be
told, it is difficult to pastor ten normal families effectively. The demands
would be crippling.
How then does
one pastor handle hundreds?
The only way he
can do it is by raising several under shepherds and equipping them to function
effectively.
If Jesus walked
with twelve, one of whom was lost from the beginning, is it possible to do the
same with a hundred?
What I am trying
to say is that the model we have for the pastor is not effective at all and
accomplishes very little since a majority of the flock not only feel left out,
but they are actually neglected, their usefulness being the monies they bring.
Unless the pastor has a hundred-hour day and a fifty-day week.
This is the
reason a conscientious pastor very easily sinks into depression, suicide,
adultery, drugs and many other vices due to or to cope with the demands of the
pastorate.
But it doesn’t
have to end up like that.
The Bible has
the clearest guidance for the pastoral office, if we are brave enough to agree
with and follow it.
The first thing
I will say is that he is first and foremost accountable to Christ, even before
being answerable to the church board. That accountability to the church board
is subject to what Christ is saying concerning his ministry and roles.
He will preach
what Christ is saying and not what his employers are asking for because he is
ultimately answerable to God whose call led to his invitation to pastor that
flock, many who have goats at the top.
I have been
kicked out of ministry when the demands of the bosses went directly opposite
what God was ordering me to do. And it was OK. Because God continued and still
continues using me.
Probably that is
the main point I should be sharing because everything else must build on that
single point.
Doing everything
else perfectly and missing this point means that you will have lost the plot
big time.
That does not
absolve you from accountability to that church board. Only that they should
know that their expectation should be tempered by what God is saying.
What that does
is making that board prayerful to be able to accurately improve your
performance since they will then be able to help you hear more clearly and
perform better because they are the ones on the ground as we may say.
Moses heard from
God. But he needed Jethro to handle his responsibilities more effectively.
A prayerful
church board will enable you to maximise your effectiveness and impact because
they will become part of what God has called you in that congregation.
The second thing
an effective pastor will do is multiply himself.
And he does this
by growing other ministers through discipleship.
I know many do
not understand Biblical discipleship and so will just give a simple method of
doing it.
Have a few young
people around you and as much as possible let them accompany you wherever you
are ministering (except of course those confidential meetings).
Let them see up
close how you minister, how you live and who you are.
Then slowly by
slowly give them opportunities to do what they have seen you do; lead a
devotion, pray, comfort etc.
As you see them
grow, have them to do some of those ministries as you watch, then send them to
do them on their own.
In that time,
you are growing with them as you spend time with them.
As they serve,
you can be sure (and I am saying this out of experience) most of them will very
clearly hear the call to join ministry.
Support them.
Fight for them. Have the church sponsor them to equipping institutions.
Finally, have
the church then enjoin them in her ministry.
Let that be a
continuous process.
Or isn’t that
how Christ did it? Isn’t this how his disciples did it?
Let me say what
I started with. It is impossible to pastor fifty people effectively; however
capable you may think you are.
Christ, who was with His 24/7 chose 12. Can you do better that Him?
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